It is better to suffer wrong to do it, and happier than sometimes cheated of no confidence. "- Samuel Johnson I was in a tele-seminar recently with International Health Coach Jeremy Likness and he made a very interesting question about trust. We were talking about people to find mentors and his mentors confident enough to pay for services, or to teach what they want (need) to know. The question took me by surprise because the truth of the matter was in fact had not paid enough attention to what really was TRUST in the world of personal improvement, the personal development and the search for mentors, because only trusted people. Well, until proven otherwise … First of all, a mentor is … men Tor – is a wise and trusted counselor or teacher. Source: Center for Environmental Health. Secondly confidence is …

confidence – confidence in the integrity, ability, or character of a person or thing. With all this clear … After I left the call noticed that should have explained that each time I met someone who did not trust me, it was they and not me who were not trustworthy! Now, before you go and say, "Well, that's a generalization Rasheed!" Let me explain this: People who give you the confidence, trust in the CAN. People who do not trust others are not trust worthy. It's that simple and does not need some Forrester research or Harvard to tell me that! Think about the last time someone does not trust you … have proven to be trustworthy? I very much doubt.

As with everything in our world Trust has two sides, and both serve their purposes. So how to trust people? You Just Do not. It's all about your attitude and change to get what they want. If you want to trust people, give the first or is considered unreliable. Everyone gets burned more than once in life, but those who succeed are those that burn, learn and continue to trust the right people. With regard to trust mentors, do I have to give the definition again?? If you have reached a level of personal development and you want to be there, then you should seek out to teach how to effectively reach implacable. Mentors serve three main purposes as a resource. Intellectual spiritual resources Resources Financial Resources After you have outdone himself or mistrust, to decide what you want and get a mentor. If you do not trust people, then this is what you do … Walk into a mirror and take a long hard look. Then tell the person in the mirror, "Hey I hope you're happy, because you and I are going to be where we are now, for a long time." ,-P With learn to trust achieved however, breaks through barriers and become more powerful each day. econfia in yourself is the first secret of success. "- Ralph Waldo Emerson *** Rasheed Ali was once a homeless runaway on the streets of New York and is changing the lives of thousands of people from all sectors of life … Helping them reach their maximum potential by conquering any and all obstacles through his Conquer their adversity Newsletter. He also co-founder of You can subscribe to your newsletter ***